Introduction: Why This Matters
Judges 9 tells the dramatic story of Abimelek, a man who made himself king but never truly followed God. His story is full of betrayal, ambition, and downfall—and it teaches us what happens when we try to take control without God’s guidance.
This lesson helps teens reflect on the kind of leaders they want to be and the danger of living for selfish goals instead of God’s purpose.
1. Bible Reading: Judges 9:1–6
“Abimelek… went to his mother’s brothers and said, ‘Ask all the citizens of Shechem… which is better for you: to have all seventy of Jerub-Baal’s sons rule over you, or just one man?’… So they gave him seventy shekels of silver… He used it to hire reckless scoundrels… and he killed his brothers.”
Explanation For Teenagers
Abimelek used manipulation, money, and violence to take power. He didn’t trust God—he trusted himself.
His leadership wasn’t based on service or justice—it was based on control and fear.
We’re called to be different. Godly leadership looks like humility, service, and truth.
Youth Group Discussion Questions
- Why do you think Abimelek wanted to be king?
- What happens when people seek power without caring about others?
- What kind of leader do you want to be—in your family, school, or church?
2. Bible Reading: Judges 9:22–25, 50–57 (Summary)
Abimelek ruled for three years, but everything started falling apart. Eventually, he attacked a town and was killed when a woman dropped a millstone on his head. His downfall was the result of his own pride and violence.
Explanation For Teenagers
Abimelek’s story ends the way it began—with selfishness and destruction.
God allowed his downfall to show that leadership without Him won’t last.
We may not be kings, but we all influence others. Will our influence point people to ourselves—or to God?
Youth Group Discussion Questions
- What’s the difference between godly influence and selfish control?
- What’s a way you can use your voice or influence for good this week?
- How can we keep God at the center of our leadership?
Youth Group Game: “Build or Break”
What You’ll Need:
- Building blocks or cups
- Cards with “leader” actions (positive and negative)
How to Play:
- Split into teams. Each team takes turns drawing a card and acting it out (e.g., “Encourage a friend” = build a block, “Lie to impress” = remove a block).
- See who can keep their tower strong—and talk about what kind of leadership builds others up.
Debrief
- Which actions made your tower stronger or weaker?
- How does this relate to real leadership in life?
- What’s one step you can take to be a godly influencer?
Closing Prayer
Lord, help us be leaders who follow You—not our own selfish goals. Keep us humble, kind, and bold for what’s right. Use our influence to bless others and bring glory to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.