Youth Ministry Lesson on Matthew 25:1-13: Being Prepared for Christ’s Return

As teenagers, it’s easy to get caught up in the distractions and busyness of daily life. But in Matthew 25:1-13, Jesus tells a parable that reminds us of the importance of being prepared and staying faithful in our relationship with Him. This lesson will help teenagers understand the significance of being spiritually ready for Christ’s return and how to live faithfully in the present.

Bible Reading: Matthew 25:1-13

“Then the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them, but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. As the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and slept. But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ Then all those virgins rose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ But the wise answered, saying, ‘Since there will not be enough for us and for you, go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ And while they were going to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast, and the door was shut. Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ But he answered, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.”


  • In this parable, Jesus uses the story of ten virgins waiting for the bridegroom to illustrate the importance of being spiritually prepared for His return.
  • The five wise virgins symbolize those who are faithful and prepared, while the five foolish virgins represent those who are unprepared and lacking in faith.
  • The lamps represent our faith, and the oil represents the Holy Spirit’s presence and work within us.
  • The delay of the bridegroom signifies the uncertainty of Christ’s return, emphasizing the need for constant readiness.

Youth Group Discussion Questions:

  1. What does this parable teach us about the importance of spiritual preparation?
  2. Why do you think the foolish virgins didn’t bring enough oil with them?
  3. How can we ensure that we stay spiritually ready for Christ’s return in our own lives?
  4. What are some common distractions that may hinder our spiritual preparedness?
  5. How can we support and encourage one another to remain faithful and prepared?

Youth Group Game: “Ready or Not”

Divide the teenagers into two teams. Each team must hide an object somewhere in the room while the other team counts down from 60. Once the countdown is complete, the teams take turns searching for the hidden object. The team that finds the object first wins. Use this game as a fun way to reinforce the importance of being ready and prepared.

Closing Prayer:

Dear God, thank you for reminding us of the significance of being spiritually prepared and faithful in our relationship with You. Help us to rely on Your Holy Spirit and to live each day in a way that honors and pleases You. Grant us the wisdom and strength to resist distractions and remain vigilant in our faith. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, this lesson is just a guide. Feel free to adapt it to fit the specific needs and dynamics of your youth ministry.

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