Bible Readings & Explanations
Proverbs 13:20
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”
Explanation for Teenagers:
This proverb emphasizes the importance of choosing wise friends who will positively influence us. The company we keep impacts our character and decisions.
Youth Group Discussion Questions:
- How have your friendships affected the way you think and act?
- What qualities do you look for in a good friend?
- When have you had to distance yourself from unhealthy relationships?
Ephesians 4:29
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
Explanation for Teenagers:
God calls us to use our words to encourage and strengthen our relationships, not tear them down.
Youth Group Discussion Questions:
- How can the way we communicate impact our friendships?
- What are some examples of “unwholesome talk” that can harm relationships?
- What does it look like to build others up with your words?
Youth Group Activity: “Relationship Mapping”
- Have teens draw a diagram or mind map of their different relationships.
- Encourage them to reflect on the health and influence of each relationship.
- Discuss how they can pursue more meaningful, God-honoring connections.
Youth Group Discussion Questions:
- What did you notice about the quality of your various relationships?
- How can you invest in the most life-giving friendships in your life?
- What steps can you take to address unhealthy relationships?
Closing Prayer
“Lord, help us to be wise in our relationships and use our words to build each other up. May our friendships reflect Your love and point others to You. Give us discernment to surround ourselves with people who will strengthen our faith. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
This lesson guides teens to evaluate their relationships and make choices that honor God and cultivate meaningful connections.